There are two options that would allow the child to be placed directly with you. While doing these things doesn’t guarantee that a child will be placed with you, it will raise your chances of getting the child.
1. You can become a certified foster parent. You must complete the PRIDE classes and undergo a home study to be certified as a foster parent. PRIDE stands for Parent Resources for Information, Development, and Education. PRIDE training teaches foster and adoptive parents skills and prepares them for the challenges of fostering or adopting a child. For more information, go to DHHR’s website.
2. Or, you can ask to become a “kinship placement.” Kinship placement is putting the child in the home with any person who is related to the child by blood or marriage including cousins or in-laws. It can also include anyone the child regards as family, such as godparents or close family friends. Once you know that a child in your family has been placed into foster care, contact DHHR and tell them you would like to become a placement for the child. The process for placing the child with you can go faster because you are a relative or kinship.
The best thing is to be proactive and cooperative.
- Reach out to the local DHHR and let them know you are willing and able to be a home for the child.
- Cooperate with the DHHR to do a home study of your house.
- Take the PRIDE classes to become a foster parent.
DHHR workers are often busy handling many cases for abused children. It may seem that they do not want you to have the child. Do not be discouraged. Continue to follow-through and complete all the steps that they ask you to.
These cases sometimes have lengthy delays. You must be “patient but persistent.” Keep in touch with the worker. Ask the worker if there is anything else you need to do. If not, be patient but keep in regular contact with the worker as the case unfolds.